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Ladies, ladies, ladies... I have a must read for any woman who wants to attract a good man...and it's FREE. Create More Love mini-handbook: Ten Powerful and Easy Tips To Attract a Good Man is available now. This mini-handbook is a prelude to my forthcoming book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract A Good Man. So to get your free copy visit my website at www.createmorelove.com, go to the page titled Love Tools, and click on the pdf link. Hope this helps you in your search for Mr. right and creating more love in your life. If you have any questions email me at createmorelove@gmail.com. All comments and feedback welcomed.

Get A Statue

Okay ladies, this is my tip of the week, for any woman who wants to attract a good man. It's a pretty simple tip, but don't do this unless your serious about having a relationship. I want you to get a visual representation- to remind you of your desire. I don't just want you to create a vision board, even though I do suggest at some point you do. However, I teach how to create a vision board in my book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract A Good Man. But that's a different post.

This is what to do:

Buy a statue and put the statue on your dresser draw, or anywhere you will see it daily. The best place to put it is in your room, preferably next to your bed- so you will see it first thing in the morning, and last thing at night. This will help you to keep your mind focused on what you want to create.

About 2 months before I met my husband (the second time), I purchase a silver statue of a man who had his arms around a woman. The woman was holding a baby and together the three blended together. I loved this statue because it represented to me my desire and I wanted something to remind me of my commitment. I believe by purchasing this statue and allowing myself to stir up loving feelings -sent a powerful vibration out into the universe. The universe had only one signal to go on- and it brought to me exactly what I was envisioning constantly- a family. I believe that a statue will ground your desire and cause a supernatural shift in your favor.

Get a statue that is specific to your desire and then be open, because your man will be coming. This is about your commitment to do what it takes- and align your mind with your heart. Happy statue hunting and check back for your next tip of the week on creating more love in your life.

Give him an Opportunity to LOVE YOU

Is it possible that the right man for you has not had the pleasure of getting to know you? You can meet a person several times before you get to know who they truly are. This is my advice for women seeking a relationship. Give him an opportunity to love you. All this entails is that you show up as your AUTHENTIC SELF.

What do I mean?

So many times we are so busy (and unconsciously go about our lives) without giving others our truth. But it is this truth- the REAL YOU, that the man who is for you- falls in love with. I talk about the importance of being your authentic self in chapter 1 of my book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract a Good Man.

When you are being yourself- expressing your truth- your natural energy not only will attract a man toward you- but a good man will sense that you are what he needs in his life. It is your light he sees when you are at ease.

Think about a time when you're not worried about impressing anyone, maybe your sitting in the comfort of your own home, hanging out with family and friends, and lets say your enjoying one of your favorite hobbies. Whether your watching a sport game, playing a board game, or snuggled up on the couch in front of a movie- you feel safe. You are at this time laughing and enjoying your family and friends. Your probably smiling and comfortable. It is this person that women hide from those outside there immediate circle.

However, if you want to attract a good man- you must allow yourself to be natural. This means putting yourself in environments where you feel comfortable and then show up AUTHENTIC. Trust me when I say he will not only notice you- but he will keep showing up eager to get to know more of you.

My Journey

When I first met my husband I made the mistake of not giving him the opportunity to love me. To be honest, even though I had been praying to God to meet that special someone, when he showed up- I let fear control my actions, and I turned him away. Thankfully, a year later (when I was open and now ready) he came back into my life- amazingly it was exactly a year later to the day. But this time I was living out of a place of my truth, and I allowed him to love me. We have been together ever since and one thing he tells me is that he knew there was something about me that he had to get to know. I say this to you in all confidence. The man for you-he will have a sense but you have to let him turn that sense into love.

Observe how you act outside the comfort of your home.

Many times a woman will have her guard up and without knowing will send out the wrong energy that says "I'm not open to receive". When you put a wall in front of your heart your actions are not aligned with your desire to have a relationship. Remember you are beautiful and lovable. Just give him the opportunity to know you.

Check back for more tips on being Authentic and how living your truth can help you to attract A Good Man.

Speak Your Husband into Existence

It takes courage to speak out loud what you truly desire. This is my tip of the week for any woman who wants to be married. Don't worry about who it will be, focus on the desire- a husband.

1. Speak it
2. Confess it
3. Believe it

Two years before I even met my husband I had him in my mouth. What do I mean?

I was speaking him into existence. I did not know who he was but I knew I wanted to be married, and I had no shame in speaking my desire. I talked about my desire to be married with my family and closest friends (but share your dream with those who will support it- don't bother with men- hating or dream- killer type of people).

When I say speak it- I mean don't be afraid to talk about your desire- set the record straight. Wanting to be loved and cherished for the rest of your life is a natural human desire.

When I say confess it- I mean to the universe- so it will know what to bring you. Remember marriage is a part of God's design and he desires for you to be loved and fulfilled.

When I say believe it- this is about having an expectancy that one day you will be married. God has created someone special to love you and for you to love.

But until that special day comes this is what you do: Speak your husband into existence. Whatever opportunity you have say "My husband and I..." and finish the statement with something you desire. This may sound crazy to the outside world, but who cares, you're only sharing it with people you trust anyhow who support your deepest desire -to be married.

• This is about manifestation.
• This is about having the courage to profess what you truly desire.
• This is about reminding yourself to keep up the good faith (especially if your single).

When I finally got married a good friend of mine reminded me of how often I would talk about being married. She even admitted that I use to drive her a little crazy with all the "My husband and I" statements. I didn't know I was talking that much about him but in my opinion this helped bring my husband forth. So it may seem silly to some but I can testify that it works. Check back as I will be writing a tip every week to help you create more love in your life.

How's Your ENERGY

Do you desire to have a loving life partner?
If you are being authentic in life and still have not attracted a mate, then this advice is for you. CHECK YOUR ENERGY!

What are you projecting to the world?
It's your energy. Before anyone has the pleasure of getting to know you they can get a perception of you.

How?
People can read your energy. It's the way you walk, the way you talk (and what comes out of your mouth), your facial expression (are you smiling or frowning), and your appearance (how you decide to make that first impression). And trust me when I say, "the man for you WILL BE attracted to YOUR ENERGY".


When the right man for you comes along he will feel a vibe, or what I like to call a Magnetic Pulse, pulling him toward you. He won't know you, but he will sense an internal need to have more of your energy in his life. Your energy is what he needs and his energy is what you need; together you two balance and complete the meaning of life. I believe to be loved by that special person is a part of what brings great meaning in life. You too can create more love and meaning in your life. Just focus on raising your vibrational energy.

How do I raise my vibrational energy?
The best way to raise your vibration is to focus on a specific intention and direct all of your energy toward it. If your intention is to be loved and cherished by a man you must focus your energy toward this desire. There are very simple things you can do; some suggestions:

1. Write out your intention in affirmation form "I am experiencing a committed relationship with a man who loves and cherish me.
2. Post your affirmation somewhere you can see it and say it often
3. Get a love song that makes you feel loved. Listen to the song often to remind you of your intention
4. Use the power of Expectancy- know that your energy will attract your intention.

I hope this helps you toward creating more love in your love life. Check back for more relationship tips.

It's All About YOU...

Honestly, if your looking to attract a mate it's all about you.

Now how often do you here that when it comes to relationships? ha, ha

No seriously, this is the only time I will probably say "it's all about you" when it comes to relationship advice, because once you're in a relationship it's never about you alone. Well, if you want to have any successful relationship it will take compromise but that's another post.

If there is one thing you should never compromise on, whether single or married, it's being YOU. When I say "it's all about you" I'm talking about being authentic, letting the real you shine. When you are being yourself and coming from a place of truth there is a light that radiates out of you toward the exact person attracted to your energy.

In my book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits To Attract A Good Man I have dedicated an entire chapter to YOU. BE AUTHENTIC is the first trait out of the ten that I believe every woman needs if she wants to attract a good man.

Check back for more tips on being authentic and how being YOU can help to create more love in your life.