Happy New Year- Be Open to Love

With the New Year beginning there is a freshness in thee air- hold on to this moment and be open to receive more love. As the New Year comes in stand with your arms stretched wide and pointing upward into the air, and repeat this-

"I am open to love, I am open to give and receive more love- right now at this very moment". (This is the exact affirmation I used before I met my husband and had my daughter- it's powerful if said often as a mantra)

You have what you say- so just stay open and expect that in 2010 love will come.

Get A Song

There is something about the vibration of a heartfelt song. When you listen to the song it gives you chills deep down in your soul because the words touch you. Whether you like the lyrics or just the way the beat makes you feel- Get a song that invokes emotions and use this powerful energy to bring anything into your life- YES EVEN YOUR MATE. If it is a relationship you desire then use the power of music to raise your vibrational energy.

This is how
1) Pick a song that you love, preferably that makes you feel something- emotions such as good, love, sexy, or hopeful or best
2) Listen to the song daily (if your serious about attracting a mate)
3) Sing the song- get it down in your soul (this is about reaffirming the emotion)

Why

When you feel good, love, etc...you attract more of it. We all desire things- the difference between those who receive and those who don't is intensity. Yes! emotion can play a vital part in you creating more love for your life. Even if the song makes you cry tears of joy because you desire to have a relationship so bad. This emotion is good and when felt on a heart level will manifest in your reality.

Trust me this works (try it for 2 weeks and see what happens).

My story

When I became serious about attracting a man I would listen to this song I loved every morning before going to work. This song was from a man singing about a wonderful woman in his life that he did not want to live without. In the song the man poured out his desire to love this women with every breath he had. I loved this song and it made me feel hopeful that one day I too would have a man who felt as deeply for me as this love affair he was professing in the song. When I listened to this song it sat my mind on track to receive exactly what I wanted- a loving man.

Now that I have my husband I am confident that it was that emotion (that the song brought up from me) that played a major part in my intensity, may vibrational energy pulling what I desired toward me. Happy singing as you find the song that will not only touch your heart but bring forth a powerful opportunity for your life. Remember if you desire a relationship- then know that love is already within you. You just need to bring it up and give it out. Let the song help bring love up within you.

Self-care brings more love

Here's another tip of the week for anyone who wants to create more love in their life. Self-care is a great way to attract more love in your life. When you start to give yourself some tender loving care it brings positive change and gives you more clarity about what you truly want in life.

Why? Because you take the time to figure out what you need and what makes you happy. When you know what you want love finds away to bring it to you.

So pick something! We can all give a little more to ourselves, whether it's making sure you eat healthier, exercise, take care of your hair, cook for yourself, or organize that closet. Whatever it is give yourself at least a good month to focus on creating positive habits in that particular area of your life.

My Story
I use to have a bad habit of skipping meals, and when I did eat it was usually on the go and behind the wheel of my car. My excuse was that I was on the move and had to much to do. But I knew that I truly desired to slow down, sit down, and enjoy a meal at home.

I started to set days where I would cook a meal for myself (I was single at this time) and eat at the table. I would imagine cooking for two and I could sense the vibration of love. Not only was I taking the time to give myself something I needed but it helped me to create positive eating habits that I truly desired in a relationship. It wasn't long before I met my husband and was cooking meals for him. To this day my husband always wants a home -cooked meal and I'm glad for the time I took when I was single to master some meals. However, I'm still learning how to cook different meals for him but the point is that I enjoy it and nothing makes me happier than for us to take a moment, sit down, and eat a meal together. By taking care of myself I was able to attract more of what I truly desired into my life. That's just one example but there are many more.

The Lesson
How you take care of yourself also reflects how you feel about yourself - you show others how you desire to be treated. Remember you can't expect a man to treat you better than you treat yourself. So start by giving yourself some T.L.C and watch how more love comes toward you. Happy self- care on your journey toward attracting more love in your life.

Make the Move

Sometimes you need to physically move to see a shift happen in your life. This shift comes by welcoming change instead of fearing it. When you want to get things moving in a new direction it takes stepping out into new territory with an optimistic outlook about your future. When you make the move it takes courage to venture out into something new, but this courage will give you a confident attitude- an I can make it- and everything is working for my good kind of attitude. The attitude that you will not only be okay -but flourish in your new environment. This shift in your attitude opens you up to receive more new things to come into your life- even a new relationship if this is what you seek. By making a move to something better your saying I'm open to more good to flow into my life- next could be MR. RIGHT. Maybe it just takes you stepping out of the old and into something new to receive him. Warm wishes on your journey toward creating more love in your life and I'm praying that you find the love your heart truly desires.

Free E-book

Ladies, ladies, ladies... I have a must read for any woman who wants to attract a good man...and it's FREE. Create More Love mini-handbook: Ten Powerful and Easy Tips To Attract a Good Man is available now. This mini-handbook is a prelude to my forthcoming book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract A Good Man. So to get your free copy visit my website at www.createmorelove.com, go to the page titled Love Tools, and click on the pdf link. Hope this helps you in your search for Mr. right and creating more love in your life. If you have any questions email me at createmorelove@gmail.com. All comments and feedback welcomed.

Get A Statue

Okay ladies, this is my tip of the week, for any woman who wants to attract a good man. It's a pretty simple tip, but don't do this unless your serious about having a relationship. I want you to get a visual representation- to remind you of your desire. I don't just want you to create a vision board, even though I do suggest at some point you do. However, I teach how to create a vision board in my book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract A Good Man. But that's a different post.

This is what to do:

Buy a statue and put the statue on your dresser draw, or anywhere you will see it daily. The best place to put it is in your room, preferably next to your bed- so you will see it first thing in the morning, and last thing at night. This will help you to keep your mind focused on what you want to create.

About 2 months before I met my husband (the second time), I purchase a silver statue of a man who had his arms around a woman. The woman was holding a baby and together the three blended together. I loved this statue because it represented to me my desire and I wanted something to remind me of my commitment. I believe by purchasing this statue and allowing myself to stir up loving feelings -sent a powerful vibration out into the universe. The universe had only one signal to go on- and it brought to me exactly what I was envisioning constantly- a family. I believe that a statue will ground your desire and cause a supernatural shift in your favor.

Get a statue that is specific to your desire and then be open, because your man will be coming. This is about your commitment to do what it takes- and align your mind with your heart. Happy statue hunting and check back for your next tip of the week on creating more love in your life.

Give him an Opportunity to LOVE YOU

Is it possible that the right man for you has not had the pleasure of getting to know you? You can meet a person several times before you get to know who they truly are. This is my advice for women seeking a relationship. Give him an opportunity to love you. All this entails is that you show up as your AUTHENTIC SELF.

What do I mean?

So many times we are so busy (and unconsciously go about our lives) without giving others our truth. But it is this truth- the REAL YOU, that the man who is for you- falls in love with. I talk about the importance of being your authentic self in chapter 1 of my book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract a Good Man.

When you are being yourself- expressing your truth- your natural energy not only will attract a man toward you- but a good man will sense that you are what he needs in his life. It is your light he sees when you are at ease.

Think about a time when you're not worried about impressing anyone, maybe your sitting in the comfort of your own home, hanging out with family and friends, and lets say your enjoying one of your favorite hobbies. Whether your watching a sport game, playing a board game, or snuggled up on the couch in front of a movie- you feel safe. You are at this time laughing and enjoying your family and friends. Your probably smiling and comfortable. It is this person that women hide from those outside there immediate circle.

However, if you want to attract a good man- you must allow yourself to be natural. This means putting yourself in environments where you feel comfortable and then show up AUTHENTIC. Trust me when I say he will not only notice you- but he will keep showing up eager to get to know more of you.

My Journey

When I first met my husband I made the mistake of not giving him the opportunity to love me. To be honest, even though I had been praying to God to meet that special someone, when he showed up- I let fear control my actions, and I turned him away. Thankfully, a year later (when I was open and now ready) he came back into my life- amazingly it was exactly a year later to the day. But this time I was living out of a place of my truth, and I allowed him to love me. We have been together ever since and one thing he tells me is that he knew there was something about me that he had to get to know. I say this to you in all confidence. The man for you-he will have a sense but you have to let him turn that sense into love.

Observe how you act outside the comfort of your home.

Many times a woman will have her guard up and without knowing will send out the wrong energy that says "I'm not open to receive". When you put a wall in front of your heart your actions are not aligned with your desire to have a relationship. Remember you are beautiful and lovable. Just give him the opportunity to know you.

Check back for more tips on being Authentic and how living your truth can help you to attract A Good Man.