Give him an Opportunity to LOVE YOU

Is it possible that the right man for you has not had the pleasure of getting to know you? You can meet a person several times before you get to know who they truly are. This is my advice for women seeking a relationship. Give him an opportunity to love you. All this entails is that you show up as your AUTHENTIC SELF.

What do I mean?

So many times we are so busy (and unconsciously go about our lives) without giving others our truth. But it is this truth- the REAL YOU, that the man who is for you- falls in love with. I talk about the importance of being your authentic self in chapter 1 of my book, Create More Love Part 1: Ten Traits to Attract a Good Man.

When you are being yourself- expressing your truth- your natural energy not only will attract a man toward you- but a good man will sense that you are what he needs in his life. It is your light he sees when you are at ease.

Think about a time when you're not worried about impressing anyone, maybe your sitting in the comfort of your own home, hanging out with family and friends, and lets say your enjoying one of your favorite hobbies. Whether your watching a sport game, playing a board game, or snuggled up on the couch in front of a movie- you feel safe. You are at this time laughing and enjoying your family and friends. Your probably smiling and comfortable. It is this person that women hide from those outside there immediate circle.

However, if you want to attract a good man- you must allow yourself to be natural. This means putting yourself in environments where you feel comfortable and then show up AUTHENTIC. Trust me when I say he will not only notice you- but he will keep showing up eager to get to know more of you.

My Journey

When I first met my husband I made the mistake of not giving him the opportunity to love me. To be honest, even though I had been praying to God to meet that special someone, when he showed up- I let fear control my actions, and I turned him away. Thankfully, a year later (when I was open and now ready) he came back into my life- amazingly it was exactly a year later to the day. But this time I was living out of a place of my truth, and I allowed him to love me. We have been together ever since and one thing he tells me is that he knew there was something about me that he had to get to know. I say this to you in all confidence. The man for you-he will have a sense but you have to let him turn that sense into love.

Observe how you act outside the comfort of your home.

Many times a woman will have her guard up and without knowing will send out the wrong energy that says "I'm not open to receive". When you put a wall in front of your heart your actions are not aligned with your desire to have a relationship. Remember you are beautiful and lovable. Just give him the opportunity to know you.

Check back for more tips on being Authentic and how living your truth can help you to attract A Good Man.