Speak Your Husband into Existence

It takes courage to speak out loud what you truly desire. This is my tip of the week for any woman who wants to be married. Don't worry about who it will be, focus on the desire- a husband.

1. Speak it
2. Confess it
3. Believe it

Two years before I even met my husband I had him in my mouth. What do I mean?

I was speaking him into existence. I did not know who he was but I knew I wanted to be married, and I had no shame in speaking my desire. I talked about my desire to be married with my family and closest friends (but share your dream with those who will support it- don't bother with men- hating or dream- killer type of people).

When I say speak it- I mean don't be afraid to talk about your desire- set the record straight. Wanting to be loved and cherished for the rest of your life is a natural human desire.

When I say confess it- I mean to the universe- so it will know what to bring you. Remember marriage is a part of God's design and he desires for you to be loved and fulfilled.

When I say believe it- this is about having an expectancy that one day you will be married. God has created someone special to love you and for you to love.

But until that special day comes this is what you do: Speak your husband into existence. Whatever opportunity you have say "My husband and I..." and finish the statement with something you desire. This may sound crazy to the outside world, but who cares, you're only sharing it with people you trust anyhow who support your deepest desire -to be married.

• This is about manifestation.
• This is about having the courage to profess what you truly desire.
• This is about reminding yourself to keep up the good faith (especially if your single).

When I finally got married a good friend of mine reminded me of how often I would talk about being married. She even admitted that I use to drive her a little crazy with all the "My husband and I" statements. I didn't know I was talking that much about him but in my opinion this helped bring my husband forth. So it may seem silly to some but I can testify that it works. Check back as I will be writing a tip every week to help you create more love in your life.