Create More LOVE

In this blog you will find real life stories of married life, tips for those seeking a loving relationship, and just random whatevers but I'll always keep it positive.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Self-care brings more love

Here's another tip of the week for anyone who wants to create more love in their life. Self-care is a great way to attract more love in your life. When you start to give yourself some tender loving care it brings positive change and gives you more clarity about what you truly want in life.

Why? Because you take the time to figure out what you need and what makes you happy. When you know what you want love finds away to bring it to you.

So pick something! We can all give a little more to ourselves, whether it's making sure you eat healthier, exercise, take care of your hair, cook for yourself, or organize that closet. Whatever it is give yourself at least a good month to focus on creating positive habits in that particular area of your life.

My Story
I use to have a bad habit of skipping meals, and when I did eat it was usually on the go and behind the wheel of my car. My excuse was that I was on the move and had to much to do. But I knew that I truly desired to slow down, sit down, and enjoy a meal at home.

I started to set days where I would cook a meal for myself (I was single at this time) and eat at the table. I would imagine cooking for two and I could sense the vibration of love. Not only was I taking the time to give myself something I needed but it helped me to create positive eating habits that I truly desired in a relationship. It wasn't long before I met my husband and was cooking meals for him. To this day my husband always wants a home -cooked meal and I'm glad for the time I took when I was single to master some meals. However, I'm still learning how to cook different meals for him but the point is that I enjoy it and nothing makes me happier than for us to take a moment, sit down, and eat a meal together. By taking care of myself I was able to attract more of what I truly desired into my life. That's just one example but there are many more.

The Lesson
How you take care of yourself also reflects how you feel about yourself - you show others how you desire to be treated. Remember you can't expect a man to treat you better than you treat yourself. So start by giving yourself some T.L.C and watch how more love comes toward you. Happy self- care on your journey toward attracting more love in your life.

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